Relationship rituals: romantic or a rut?

Ooh, a bonus post!  I just realized I wrote this a while back and forgot to publish it.  So here ya' go!

Mr. D and I had a conversation this weekend about relationship rituals and whether they are beneficial or indicative of a rut.  We know a couple who, as a rule, go to lunch at the same restaurant after church every Sunday.  Another couple we know goes to see a movie every Tuesday night.  Mr. D. and I used to make pizza for supper every Friday night, but that ritual has died out, because frankly there are Fridays when I don't feel like kneading dough.  Recently, in the spirit of establishing a new ritual, we have been having a Saturday morning breakfast date.  However, we change up the restaurant and there are some Saturdays we skip.  But we try.  And it is nice time to talk without distractions and maybe plan our weekend to-do list.

Mr. D's opinion is that couples' traditions are nice.  I'm okay with some tiny traditions, but I  feel some can also be a slippery slope to dressing alike in your 70s.  (Have you seen this couple?!  http://www.khou.com/news/texas-news/155430885.html ) I understand there is comfort in going to your favorite restaurant, but why at the same day and time every week?  I like when a bartender/waiter recognizes me, but when they anticipate what I will order, then it's time to change it up.  I understand my husband's point, though.  He likes consistency and reliability, and it does seems that many traditions are the mark of a couple that truly enjoys being together.  

So maybe the trick is to have traditions, but don't let them pull you into a rut.  Don't always get the same meal, or the same wine at your favorite Wednesday night restaurant.  Also, invite other couples (or singles) to join you! 

PS.  There is one ritual Mr. D and I have that I think will be with us until our journey ends and that we both enjoy.  We hold hands on airplane take-offs.  (I know....awwww.)  I was nervous one time (I think I had just seen some plane crash) and grabbed his hand.  He's been holding my hand ever since.